What is a BDSM Dungeon?

When you hear BDSM Dungeon, what is it that comes to mind? For many people it is something they have seen in the movies. A dark underground cavern, made of stone and metal with bars and doors like prison cells and a dank molding odor permeating through out. It’s a scary, dangerous place where you would be kept and tormented by some ogre.

Or maybe your imagination instantly goes to the sexy side, still picturing a dark stone and metal area, you see Mistresses and Masters dressed in leather with whips, slaves chained to walls or strapped down on various sexual devices. Either way the word is very powerful and conjures up immediate images to your mind. But what is a Dungeon really?

First a basic definition of the word when referring to BDSM play, because after all that is what we’re here to talk about isn’t it, not knights and dragons. An erotic dungeon can be any place set aside for BDSM play between a Dominant and submissive.

There are private and public dungeons and each has it’s advantages and disadvantages, like everything else. Though they do have the same general purpose in common and many of the same toys and erotic furniture are used in each. Both are places where a submissive and in our case a Mistress can meet to play out various erotic fantasies.

Follow Me to My Basement for Private BDSM Dungeon Play

Private BDSM dungeons are just that, private. They are most often found in homes of dominant partners. They can be a spare room or a finished or unfinished basement, even just an area of a room, like a bedroom, where play always occurs. It is outfitted with erotic furniture, stocks, straps, a St. Andrew’s Cross with cuffs to hold the submissive in place.

All easily attached to walls or set up in basements. These places are set aside as somewhere to go that without speaking the roles are already set. If you are in a D/s relationship and your Mistress asks you to meet her in the Dungeon, you know without her explaining how you should be dressed and the attitude you should assume upon entering.

Normally much smaller and more personal than Public Dungeons, private ones are maintained by and reflect the inclinations and personality of the Mistress controlling them. They may be dark and almost frightening with lots of leather and chains or they may be beautiful.

Pinks and purples in the leather straps instead of black, soft places to distract you from the hard paddles. It’s all up to the one who owns and therefore controls the dungeon. The allure of these as opposed to public Dungeons, is the complete control. This can make them more exciting for those who wish to be kept and controlled on a more lengthy basis or who make BDSM play a part of their daily lifestyle.

The Club You Join for Dungeon Games in Public

Public Dungeons are set up a bit differently though they serve the same general purpose. As opposed to a private dungeon, where you are at home or at the home of your Mistress, a public dungeon is often a club you become a member of. You join the BDSM community in your area and find the public dungeon suited most to your needs.

Some cater to specific fetishes while others or more general. These public places can be very large with many rooms and Mistresses or Masters, all well versed in specific needs and spending time meeting with you. You will see other subs there and possibly even engage in public humiliation, as there are others readily available to be pulled in. Old warehouses and factories outside of towns are often used as public Dungeons, the spaces set up, sometimes in a very elaborate manner to reflect nothing of the inside from the outside.

In a public dungeon, you can have as few as two or three and as many as twenty or so doms. You may see one Dominatrix only or a variety, this is the choice of the submissive to a point. Most public dungeons also have a moderator to make sure everything stays safe and this is the allure of them to many people who do not know someone personally they trust totally with their sexual needs and safety.

In many ways, because they are more regulated, a public dungeon is safer and if you do not have a D/s partnership with someone you know very well they are the best route for a newbie. Sessions can and are tailored to your needs and each room if decorated to reflect the style of domination done in the room, from racks and cages with whips and chains, to massage tables with built in fucking machines.

This Choice At Least, is Yours

Regardless of which type of dungeon play you prefer you can find it in a public or private dungeon. The choice of which excites you more or is more doable for you is something you personally have to decide.

However, always remain safe and sane in any BDSM dungeon play and if your fantasies are just beginning or need a kick in the ass, speak with a Femdom Mistress for tips on ways to make it even more exciting.