Spanking Yourself For Mistress

Do you enjoy spanking? Have you ever tried spanking yourself for a phone Mistress?

There are times in which you just can’t be with your Mistress in person. This may be because you’re in a distance domination relationship, such as one with a phone sex Mistress, or simply because your real-life Mistress is out of town or otherwise indisposed.

Just because you and your Mistress aren’t face-to-face, however, doesn’t mean that all play or discipline has to stop. If you’re willing to get creative, you can have a good time and enjoy all those wonderful feelings of submission even without your Mistress’s physical touch.

This applies to nearly any type of kinky play, but this essay is going to cover spanking and how to do give yourself a spanking in the absence of your Mistress.

Many Mistresses enjoy spanking and so do their submissives. It’s also an easy activity that doesn’t require a lot of specialized knowledge, so it’s no wonder why so many people in the kink and fetish world love it.

The Presence Of A Femdom Is Not Necessary  In Order To Be Spanked

Another good thing about spanking as a fetish is that you don’t need your Mistress’s physical presence in order to experience it. You will, most likely, need her instructions and, of course, her permission to spank yourself, but you don’t have to have her there to do it for you.

It’s easy to spank yourself at the request of a Femdom Mistress. You’ll just need to do a couple of things first, and then you’ll be happily reddening your own bottom in no time!

Naturally, the first thing you’ll need is your Mistress’s permission to spank yourself. Most of the time, Mistresses will grant this permission readily, but it’s better to be safe than sorry. Once her permission is obtained, you’ll next need to find out if she has any special instructions for you to follow while you give yourself a spanking. Does she want you to give yourself a punishment spanking or a spanking just for fun?

What parts of your body does she want you to spank: your ass, the backs of your thighs, perhaps your cock and balls? Does she want you to use just your hands for this spanking, or does she require certain spanking implements? Does she want you to be completely naked for this spanking, or does she prefer for you to just drop your pants? Some Mistresses will be more specific with their instructions than others, so be sure to follow them all to the letter.

If your Mistress allows you the freedom to choose some or all of these things yourself, then be sure to remember to thank her for her generosity! Once you’ve shown your appreciation, you can make up your mind about the particulars of your spanking.

Your Spanking Begins

Once all these things are decided, you’ll need to gather together any items you need for your spanking. After you have these objects, go somewhere that you’re assured of privacy and follow your Mistress’s instructions. If you’re on the phone with your Mistress at this time so that she can monitor your self-administered spanking, a headset might be a good idea. Speakerphone distorts the sound quality of a phone call, and trying to hold a phone to your ear while spanking yourself might prove to be a distraction to you!

The best position to spank yourself if you’re giving yourself a traditional spanking on the behind is to bend over. A bed or table is a good piece of furniture to use for this, as it will generally place you at the correct height. Then, you’ll just need to turn your upper body enough that you can reach your ass with your hand or spanking implement. Be sure to alternate between cheeks, even if you have to adjust your body to do so. Your phone sex Femdom wants both sides of your ass to feel the sting!

Be sure to count your strokes aloud for your Mistress if she is listening, so she knows you’re spanking yourself the required number of times. Enjoy first the stinging feeling of the immediate blow, then the warm glow that spreads across your flesh afterwards. Is it making your cock hard? If you’re lucky, your Mistress, knowing how much you love being spanked, will let you jerk off and cum for her for following her instructions so well!

Happy spanking, boys!

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