As a Submissive, Should You Be Collared?

 

Collaring is a very serious commitment in the Dom and sub relationship. A Dominant Mistress and a submissive man use collaring as a sign of commitment. It is not just something they use in play. As a male slave, you crave submission to a Dominant woman. Given that, are you thinking of being collared? I bet you are, but you also want to find out more before taking that step. You have questions.  Collared, what does it mean?  And why should you consider such an option when showing your loyalty to your Mistress?

 

Connection Or Humiliation

 

The meaning of wearing a collar in your Dominant and submissive relationship can signal a very intense connection. Normally, it shows the seriousness of the connection or the relationship status between you and your Mistress. She chooses the collar, depending on the stage of your relationship.  A protection collar lets other Dommes know she is looking out for you.  If the two of you are thinking of beginning a relationship, but are still in the process of working it out, a training or consideration collar signifies that.  Use these collars when you are creating relationship rules.  For example, when and where the sub wears the collar, as well as what both partners expect from the relationship. At this stage, either partner can still easily choose to discontinue the collaring and move on to another Mistress or submissive.

Once the choice is made to stay and all the terms and guidelines of the relationship are decided, the last form of collar is brought in. The final collar is  a formal collar. If the others indicate dating or an engagement, this one shows that the relationship is a marriage of sorts, where you dedicate yourself to your Mistress and wear a collar to prove your loyalty. Once you have gone this far, the relationship is as cemented as any other in the vanilla world. This is a serious commitment.  You and your Mistress honor it, as will other Doms and subs you encounter.

Be Her Pet

 

A less permanent form of collaring, and what many think of first when they hear of collaring, is also the more humiliating of the two. In this scenario, wearing a collar can be a humiliating experience, as it normally involves a leash and strict control. In this fantasy scenario, the Mistress treats the submissive partner in the scene as a “pet.” Often kept naked and taken for walks or instructed to sit at the feet of his Mistress, this form of collaring is highly sexual and, as I mentioned, humiliating. Often, the Dominant uses a lockable collar to signify the power she has over the submissive. Power, control and humiliation attach to this form of collaring, compared to the more emotional aspects, when the collar is a wedding band of sorts.

 

Types Of Collars

 

Now that you know some of the different reasons a Dom collars a sub, you probably have a better idea of what category you fall into. Of course, nothing is ever totally black and white. Even a committed relationship can be humiliating. So, think about it, do you see yourself in a collar? If the answer is, “Absolutely, yes!” then read on. There are just a few more things you need to know about the types of collars there are available for your Mistress to choose from for you.

 

First and foremost, never think this is something you choose on your own. You should go to your Mistress with the idea of collar training, and see if she is open to collaring you. This is a commitment for her, too, and you will have to hope she agrees. After that, the two of you can spend time on which kind of collars would fit both of you and your style. There are many types of collars to show off your Dominant and submissive relationship.

Collars with leashes can show that your Mistress is your true master and leads you around like her little puppy dog. These are usually unadorned and look much like animal collars. Another option includes detailed, mostly leather, collars with words on them such as “slut” or “cocksucker.” Imagine the words branded into the leather or displayed in an array of shiny crystals. These are the more humiliating types of collars that you can wear. There are also soft sided collars with symbols of commitment that can be made to match a ring or necklace your Mistress would wear. Of course, it all depends on the relationship and on the dominant woman.

 

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